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Sunday BMD Gathering

A men’s gathering is an excellent way to start your Baptist Men’s Day.  It allows men to gather for fellowship, a spiritual challenge, and prayer before the activities of the day.This gathering can serve three purposes:
 
  1. It calls men together to discover what God is doing in their lives and the life of the church;
  2. It is a good way to encourage ongoing relationship-building among men;
  3. It can be used as a challenge to begin small groups (prayer or book study) if they do not already exist in your church.
Some churches ask the church hostess to prepare a breakfast for this. In others, men prepare the food themselves, provide breakfast biscuits, or meet in a local restaurant. When praying men come together, it makes a difference!

If your church does not currently have a Baptist Men’s Ministry, perhaps this would be a good time to discuss beginning one. Utilize the information and resources on the Men's Ministry Website to help you with this..
A Suggested Schedule for Baptist Men's Day Gathering
Also Promote:
Special Baptist Men’s Day Offering.  Consider taking up a special offering to help in one of several on-going ministry needs. Refer to our “Give” page to see a list and description of possibilities.  You can give online or make checks payable to NCBM, PO Box 1107, Cary, NC  27512. Put the name of the particular ministry you wish to give to in the memo of the check.

North Carolina Missions Conference.  Plan to attend the NC Baptist Missions Conference, which will be held April 10-11, 2026 at Hickory Grove Baptist Church in Charlotte.

Men's Outdoor Weekend. Come join us for an inspiring weekend of outdoor fun and fellowship for men on May 1-2, 2026 at Camp Caraway in Asheboro.  Skeet, rifles, pistol shoot, tomahawk throw, archery, fishing, and more!  Click here for more information.
 
  • 10 minutes:  Explanation of the Men’s Ministries program in your church or a challenge to begin one.  Go to our Men's Ministry webpage to view information about how to have a well-rounded ministry to men in your church on a consistent basis. Cast a vision for your men of how this might look in your church. Download any number of Men’s Ministry handouts, including the manual “Men’s Ministries: A Resource for  Starting and Strengthening Men’s Ministries In Your Church” or show a Men’s Ministry PowerPoint presentation, also found on our Men's Ministry Resources and Events Page.

  • 5 minutes:  Show a missions video segment from the BOM Vimeo Channel. Mission videos, depicting a variety of opportunities - such as Hurricanes Dorian and Florence Recovery, International and National Partnerships, Mission Camps, Handyman, and much more -  can be shown or downloaded from this channel.

  •  7 minutes:  Singing of two praise choruses 

  • 10 minutes:  Scripture & Theme  Interpretation  

    Theme:          Seeing The Need    
    Scripture:       John 6: 1-10

Although a serious “people person”, Jesus often needed and sought out time alone with his guys. Just prior to our verses above, Jesus was doing what Jesus was always doing—healing the lame, teaching, sparring with the Jewish leaders. But then, he and his disciples got in a boat and crossed the Sea of Galilee. From there they went up on a mountainside—and probably had a bit of time together. 
 
But that did not last long! The verses tell us that the crowd immediately began following him. Guessing—or perhaps, seeing—where he was headed, the crowd began moving that way. Considering that Jesus and his disciples went by boat, and that most of the crowd likely followed on foot, Jesus and his disciples likely got at least a bit of time to themselves. 
 
That ended, however, as they all noticed from their mountainside perch the great crowd of people making their way toward them. Thirteen people saw the same, impressive sight. We do not know how they all reacted, but we do know how Jesus did. He saw the need! His first thought upon seeing the large crowd was not—”Oh! Them again! They are ruining my time alone with my disciples!”  Instead, Jesus’ first thought was “They are going to be tired, and they are going to be hungry.” In other words, Jesus saw their need. 
 
That should not surprise us though. Jesus was always seeing the need—healing the lame, giving sight to the blind, comforting the widow. He cared about physical needs. He also understood and addressed spiritual need—Nicodemus, the woman at the well. Jesus simply saw the need. 
 
As Baptists, I think we are fairly good at “seeing the need”. Thousands are ministered to after disasters such as Hurricane Helene bring devastation to whole communities. Hundreds receive dental and health care when churches host BOM’s dental and health screening buses. Mission teams serve all over North Carolina, in other partner states, and around the world, meeting physical needs while sharing the Gospel message. 
 
Our challenge, then,  becomes one of maintaining the ability, and the desire, to see people’s needs. It is easy to grow weary. It is easy to think someone else will do it. And, needs change.  Our traditional or “known” ways of helping may no longer be the most effective. Pray that we might have the eyes that Jesus has—and an open heart—to continuously see the need!
 
 
                                                                                                                                                  - Mark Abernathy, Baptists on Mission
 
  • 10 minutes:  Discussion

Ask men to gather in small groups of three to discuss the following questions:

             1. In what way is our church currently seeing and meeting physical needs? Spiritual needs?
             2. What are some new ways we as a church, and specifically we as men, might meet needs that we currently are not?
             3. What would it take for us as individuals to have “eyes like Jesus”, and an “open heart” to recognize the needs around us in                        our everyday life? Why is this important?

 

  • 10 minutes:  Prayer time in small groups.

Divide into groups of three. Along with other needs that might surface from the group, encourage men to pray for the ability to see the world as Jesus sees it. Ask God to take away the things that might hinder that in our lives. The leader will close the session with prayer. around the nine-minute mark.

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